Fearful avoidant ex ignoring me

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. . Refuses to talk about relational problems or gets defensive when you try and bring up topics regarding intimacy. . I understand the blindsiding comes from their inability to communicate difficult feelings/needs so it seems to be out of nowhere but has building for weeks/months. If you feel confused by the mixed signals from a fearful avoidant ex, you’re not alone. Generally it’s been my experience that when you ignore a fearful avoidant they first go through separation elation but it’s an extremely shortened version.

Just don’t do it.

. . They get uncomfortable with.

To counteract their erratic emotions, it is important to remain grounded and in control of your feelings.

Fearful-avoidants dealt with a loss of control because security was not.